How to make your relationships better.

Today's world could be a better place if people are more accepting towards each other instead of more expecting or demanding towards each other. Everyone is expecting something or the other from other person in a relationship, it doesn't matter whether its the relationship between a couple,  friends or simply a human behaviour. Everyone is doing favours on each other in order to get something in return. Whether they are monetary benefits or sexual benefits or something else.

Why can't people be more acceptable towards each other instead of always waiting to be accepted by someone. I am not saying that you are doing something wrong if you wish that your partner or your friends or your family accepts you completely but, you should also do the same, you should also accept the other person completely with all their flaws and achievements.

Wherever I see someone is always bitching about someone behind their back. People can't even walk out with their siblings because someone is always waiting to bitch about them behind their back. Oh! You see her daughter she was roaming out with some guy, I saw her yesterday in the market and blah blah blah. Please ask yourself a question first is it really your business to think about with the person your neighbor is roaming around with? If the answer is NO then please stop doing that immediately because if you then someone else could also be doing the same to your son or daughter and I hope you wont like it. If you don't like to suffer something on you because of the other person then please don't make that other person suffer the same because of you. Whenever you think about doing something wrong to someone just ask yourself a question first how would I feel if someone does this to me? If the answer is I will feel bad about it then STOP there only. Because I think its no where justified you doing that to the other person if you don't like to happen that with you.

I feel it's always good to question yourself before you proceed to do something further, it will make things easier for you and the other person also and this world could become a better place. And whenever you feel bad about something the other person did to you then try placing yourselves in their shoes and think if you would have also reacted the same if you were at there place if the answer is yes then try to understand their situation and be more acceptable towards them if the answer is no then try to understand the reason behind that behavior that why they reacted that way. Are they upset, depressed or something else. If you notice a repeated behavior or just cant understand their then just leave them alone instead of doing something bad against them. This will make their situation more complicated or even worse.

So, at the end i just want to say that be more acceptable and kind towards other people in order to make this world a better place to live in. If someone in the beginning doesn't appreciate you or reward you for your kindness then don't feel disheartened or demotivating, just have some patience and keep doing the good and eventually someday someone will surely appreciate you.

STAY HAPPY AND KEEP SMILING!